_SPF FAIL is equal to the SPF record value "-all" the SOFTFAIL is equal to "~all". This depends on the domain owner's SPF record.
The - mechanism is the domain owner saying the host is NOT allowed to send mail and reject.
The ~ mechanmism is the domain owner saying eh, you may want to flag the email for review, but accept.
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